Are you tired of failed relationships? Sick of dates that seem to go nowhere?
You’re not alone–I’ve been there myself.
Dating is hard, and it can feel defeating when you can’t seem to find that love connection you’ve been searching for. You may start to question whether you’ll ever have a fulfilling romantic life.
That’s where I come in.
I’m Catherine, manifestation coach and founder of Clarity Queen. I’m a firm believer that we can attract the things we want in life–including love.
I’m living proof. I attracted a loving partner using the same manifestation knowledge and techniques that I teach my clients.
Here, I’m sharing my tried-and-true tips for how to attract love into your life.
Tips for attracting love into your life:
Make peace with your situation
At first glance, this concept may seem counterintuitive. However, making peace with your current situation is crucial to successful manifestation.
If you’re constantly pining after a romantic relationship because you want to “feel complete” or because you feel pressure to partner up, you may end up settling for someone who’s not truly a good fit for you.
By accepting the fact that you’re currently single, you’ll feel less frantic to jump into a relationship just for the sake of doing so. Fostering a sense of security and confidence in your situation will help you attract someone who complements you rather than someone who’s simply seeking to fill a void in your life.
Don’t worry about when love will come
When you’ve been in a string of failed relationships, you may worry if you will ever be happy with your romantic life. You may even experience anxiety and panic around the idea of finding love.
However, when you spend so much time and energy anticipating when love will come, you subconsciously send the message that you don’t trust the Universe to bring love into your life.
This impedes the manifestation process.
Putting pressure on your romantic life creates resistance to what the Universe has in store for you. Love will come–don’t waste your energy trying to rush it or fabricate it before it’s your time.
Use positive affirmations
The Law of Attraction–the principle behind manifestation–states that we attract things that resonate with our vibrational frequency. In other words, we attract what we embody.
With that being said, it’s important to keep your vibration at a level that will attract the love you want.
Using positive affirmations is one way to do that. This method can apply to anything that you want to manifest, but some examples for manifesting love include:
- “The universe will bring me love.”
- “I will successfully attract love into my life.”
- “I love myself, and my partner will too.”
- “I deserve a loving and supportive relationship.”
- “I am prepared to receive the love that the Universe is sending my way.”
These are just a few affirmations to help attract love into your life–feel free to use or create whichever statements resonate with you.
Recognize that the Universe is on your side
When you continuously experience relationships that don’t work out, you may begin to think that the Universe is out to get you. You might feel like there is some force out there working against you.
While this is an easy mental rut to fall into, this thought pattern actually works against you.
If you start embodying the idea that you’ll never find love or that the Universe is not on your side, you will continue to manifest relationships that do not serve you.
However, if you shift your mindset and embody the idea that you can attract love into your life, you will begin to see positive changes.
Remember, we attract whatever our vibrations resonate with. If you let go of the idea that the Universe is working against you and start to believe that it will bring you love, you will be able to manifest just that.
Let go of what’s holding you back
This requires some deep reflection and inner work, but it’s essential if you’re serious about manifesting love.
Even though you may think you are ready for a relationship, you may have some underlying thoughts and experiences that hold you back from attracting love into your life.
For example, you might feel eager to have a partner, but part of you still holds back from truly trusting people.
Another example is wanting a relationship while being unwilling to change anything about your life or situation to make room for another person.
Still others may long for a partner but avoid any social situations where they may be able to meet new people.
These limitations prevent you from manifesting the love you want and deserve. Oftentimes, we’re blinded to the thoughts or actions that hold us back.
However it’s important to acknowledge and release those barriers in order to attract love.
Acknowledge the love that’s already in your life
You may be so preoccupied with the idea of attracting a partner that you could be blinded to the love that’s already within your life.
This could be love from family, friends, coworkers, or other people around you. It could come in the form of platonic love, or even romantic love with a person you hadn’t previously considered in that way.
Part of manifestation is becoming aware of what’s already in your life. Recognizing the abundance that the Universe has already brought you can help you feel more fulfilled in your current life and vibrate on a level that attracts further love.
Learn how to attract love into your life with manifestation coaching
I successfully attracted love into my life by using manifestation, and I can help you do the same.
Through one-on-one coaching sessions, I will guide you using the same manifestation principles that I used to attract a fulfilling romantic relationship. I also offer an online program, the Realm of Love, that will teach you everything you need to know about manifestation. You can also watch a replay of my attracting love masterclass.